Episode 52

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Published on:

2nd Jan 2024

You’re Not Doing it Wrong, Life is Beautifully Messy featuring Matthew Kelly

“Life is messy and life is difficult. You're not doing it wrong.”

A mistake we often make is believing that life should be easy or that we would be happier if it were. But a relentless pursuit of an "easy life" leads to anger, disappointment, and disillusionment. Easy isn't necessarily good, and difficult isn't necessarily bad.

In this episode featuring Matthew Kelly, Founder of Floyd Consulting and author of several best-selling books, we take a look at embracing the messy middle and acknowledging the difficulties of life. Both of those practices are essential for personal and professional development. Listen in to hear why if you’re looking to improve engagement at your place of business than meaningful relationships, deeply satisfying work, and facing challenges head-on are key.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  1. Acknowledge that life is messy and difficult so you can approach difficult situations with resilience and confidence, knowing that you are meant to grow through them
  2. Instead of seeking an easy life, focus on doing the work that is meant for you
  3. Reflect on how you are navigating your own challenges and discuss it with others to offer support and encouragement to those facing similar situations


Things to listen for:

[00:48] Matthew Kelly's perspective on life being difficult

[02:50] The pursuit of an easy life and its consequences

[05:48] Embracing the messy middle and acknowledging the difficulty

[10:29] The empowering question "What would this look like if it were easy?"


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About the Podcast

Lead with Culture
A company can only become the best version of itself to the extent that its people are becoming better versions of themselves. What’s the key to making that happen? Building dynamic cultures so people love coming to work and accomplishing great things together.

Hosted by Kate Volman, CEO of Floyd Coaching, Lead with Culture is a show dedicated to exploring how great leaders create workplaces where people can thrive both personally and professionally.

Conversations are inspired by Matthew Kelly's bestselling books The Dream Manager, The Culture Solution, and Off Balance. Guests include incredible leaders as well as Floyd executive coaches sharing stories and providing insights into real strategies used to attract and retain great talent, execute effectively, become better coaches, build teams and grow businesses.

Whether you're a CEO, HR executive, manager, or simply part of a team, this show will help you become a better leader.

About your host

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Kate Volman

Your dreams are yours for a reason. What are you doing about them?

Our vision at Floyd is to make work fun and engaging for as many people as possible, by delivering world-class training and creating cultures that lead to thriving businesses that are profitable, scalable, and sustainable. My team and I show up every day excited to make this happen.

My team and I can help you build a dynamic culture so people love coming to work and accomplishing great things together.
➡️ Coaching. Everyone needs a coach. We have a coach for everyone.
➡️ Training.
➡️ Speaking.

I love my career and the journey it took to get here.
⭐️ I led the sales team, improved company processes, and created programs, workshops, and initiatives to help business owners build better relationships and execute results-driven marketing strategies during my eight years at the Greater Boca Raton Chamber of Commerce.
⭐️ I initiated content marketing strategies that drove more traffic and increased brand awareness while in my role as Marketing Director for the City of West Palm Beach Community Redevelopment Agency.
⭐️ I started a boutique marketing agency and helped business owners leverage digital marketing and video.
⭐️ I founded and facilitate Inspired Action, a goal-setting workshop specifically designed to help women achieve their goals.
⭐️ At Floyd, I lead a team of incredible people dedicated to helping people and organizations become the best version of themselves.

My mission is to help as many people as possible live a more joyful life doing more of what they love.
🎤 Check out my podcast Create for No Reason, a show about making something for the pure joy of it.
https://anchor.fm/createfornoreason

I love to network, collaborate, and help people achieve their dreams. The best way to connect with me is at kvolman@floydconsulting.com